How to deal with divorce of parents

Following up on my book review of the duff i thought I would write a post about divorce, since the book talks about it. 

So there must be a lot of blogpost about this for dealing with the divorce of parents (or the divorce of any other family member) 

Divorces are nothing nice my mom is currently going through divorce no. 2. So the divorce of my mom and dad was not to hard on me for one I was still a little kid and my parents still get along really well but divorce no. 2 was way more harder on me for one that I was older and my stepdad cheated on my mom and watching my mom suffer while I had to helplessly stand there and watch. So I am going to share some "advice" that helped me: 

1. This is the most important one no matter what anyone says the divorce is NOT YOUR FAULT. 

2. Tell your parents how you feel don't bottle it all up inside you. It took me a long time to actually tell my dad and stepdad how I felt about them leaving me and my mom and telling my mom that it hurt me so much seeing her suffer but it cleared so much up in my mind. So communication is important so even if you now hate/dislike the person.

3. Take care of yourself do something fun with your friends, treat yourself to something you want. During the divorce no 2 of my mom I was so busy worrying about her that I totally forgot that I felt really shit but thank god I have great friends who took care of me

4. As much as you are involved in a divorce don't forget your parents are grow ups ( or act like them) so a divorce is something between them.

5. As shit as a divorce is and the potential moving and new boyfriend/girlfriend stepdad/stepmom is remember that out of all bad something good comes.

I hope this helped someone out there. 

Never forget YOU are a wonderful human being 

Xxx

K

Book Review: The Duff

The Movie the duff in coming out soon so I decided to read the book before the movie came out. 

The book itself it written really well. I does not sugar coat being a teenager with the ups and downs. I think the fact that the author Kody Keplinger was a teenager when she came up with the idea. It's a really good mix between touching subjects like divorce, domestic violence and alkohol abuse and general teenage life. I read the whole book in one night I could not put it down I needed to read the whole thing so for me it was not as heavy as all the bright places but also not selling me some fake idea about being a teenager. I would recommend this book to everyone 

Xxx 

K

1st Book review

Hi There

I started this blog because i was motivated by "all the bright places" by Jennifer Niven.

One of the main characters has a blog and also starts a new one so i thought why not.

On to the Review of the Book
First of all this book is amazing i was so captured by it i read the whole thing in a day. It is very intense and really really sad i almost cried. It is beautifully written and tackels important subjekts such as loosing someone close to you, depression and suicide. Thanks to this book i understand depression a little bit better and it gave me an insight in how to cope with loss.
I can wholeheartly reccomend this book, it will change you.

Soo this is my first review so its a bit short but as they say practise makes perfekt.

I hope who ever read this enjoyed this

xxx

K

Hi

Hi there!

Who am i and what the hell am i doing?
im glad you asked well i am currently strutting towords the end of my teenage years and thought it would be fun to start a blog.

What am i going to blog about?
The general hardens of beeing a middle class teenager living in a rather secure country, navigateing trough the last strech of puberty and in to adulthood yayyyyyy!!!! Plus some Travel, books, fashion and whatever comes to mind stuff.

Please note that i am a strong fighter in tha battle of equality and anti discrimnation so i absolutly do not tolorate any kind of hate/diskrimination. I would like this to be a safe place.

also my spelling sucks so please don't be total grammer nazis.

xoxo

K